In the Beginning (Structural Failure cont. Pt. 2)

No, this is not a post about origins; not in the cosmic sense. Rather, it pertains to the origins of the family. When we view the surrounding landscape of devastation after a storm we see varying degrees of failure in buildings. Some are scarcely damaged while others are demolished. There are many variables that can lead to such a scene. The common denominator is that of the engineering and construction of the structures.

Psalm 127:1 states: 'Unless the Lord builds the house they labour in vain who build it.' This is true in every arena of life. In this study we are focusing upon the family . The Lord must be the engineer and builder of the family if it is to stand. In our day of pragmatism we are apt to view the setting in which we find ourselves and then shape our approach to fit what we see. Nothing could be more dangerous! God, who does not change, has laid down a masterplan for the family and it alone can survive the stress of life.

In Genesis chapters one through three we see recorded for us the beginnings. The beginnings of all we know are found here. Some see this as a Hebrew allegory. This cannot be true or God himself would be a liar. In the recitation of creation we find that God created man, Adam, then he created woman, Eve, as a suitable helper for Adam. Adam is then recorded to have said, ' This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Genesis 2:23. God then records the following statement: 'Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.' Jesus Christ, thousands of years later quotes this verse adding, ' What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.'

In this we see several vital points pertaining to the foundation of the family structure:

1. It is part of God's created order.
2. Man is to be the leader (head) within the home.
3. Woman is fashioned to be the helper especially suited to the man.
4. The basic building block of the home is one man and one woman joined for life.
5. God sees the union of the man and the woman as a permanent joining.
6. Within their earthly relationships the marriage relationship is to take top priority.